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Turn Off that TV and Get to Know Your Kids Again
There are many families that seem to be fixated on the television. While this fixation may not be active on the
part of the parents, it may seem for them to be easier letting their children watch television than figuring out
how to connect with them. Sometimes, parents may even try to connect with their children through watching a
television show with the child. Still, the most effective ways a parent can reconnect with their child or children
is by first making the decision to turn the TV off.
One of the simplest ways to enjoy family time together is to try having dinner together. Some families prefer to
have dinner together every night of the week, while others strive for just two or three nighttime meals together.
Again, the important thing here will be to make sure that the television is not on during these meals. While
eating, it is important not to sit in silence. It is very likely that almost all parents and their children will
find this uncomfortable. Instead, try to talk about each other’s days. Parents can share with their children things
such as when they plan to go grocery shopping, and they can also ask their children what lunch meats or snacks they
would prefer to have for the upcoming week or so. Children can be encouraged to share what they enjoyed most about
their days and what they learned throughout their day. Remember – keep the television off!
Board games are also a great way to connect with one’s children. Not only do board games help parents to see their
children in action, it also showcases the child’s nature or personality. Are they strategic? Are they ruthless? Are
they competitive? Are they just in it for the fun of the game? These are all great questions that will give parents
insight into their children and their behaviors. A board game is inexpensive for the most part and families can
come together once or twice a week for a bonding experience. This is also particularly interesting for families
that choose to play games that require the family to team up and bond in that specific manner. However, it will be
important to try to shy away from board games that utilize the television, since this may lead back to the familiar
or easier television watching days. Pictionary, Charades, Guesstures, Chess and Trouble are all great games. There
are many games at stores that families can consider as well.
If time allows on the weekends or on nice, mild weathered days, parks and playgrounds can be considered. Parks are
often fun whether children are small enough to enjoy the swings and see-saws, or whether the family wants to spend
time walking around, perhaps playing with the family dog. It also helps the family to get some exercise together,
which is always nice! While the television is great for getting news and staying up to date on current events
outside the home, it often does not allow for much bonding or quality time within the home.
By simply turning off the television, parents can take a proactive step towards getting to know their children
again and spending quality time with them. It will also be important for families to look at their own individual
situations when considering activities. Active families may find more outdoor activities or sports to take part in
while more secluded families prefer to stay in and play board games. If one idea is not working for your family,
feel free to try another until you become more comfortable as a whole!
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