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Five Easy Ways for a Busy Parent to Get More
Involved in Their Kid's Education
Did you know that one of the number one complaints from our
teachers and educators nowadays is parental involvement or
better non-involvement? Many parents seem to think that the
school should teach their children, manage them when they are
there and that they as parents do not need to be involved or
put any effort in the education of their children. So if you
want to change this and get more involved in your children’s
education, here are five easy ways to do so.
One of the easiest ways to get involved in your child’s
education is by being interested in his school day. Ask your
child how school was or if anything interesting happened today
and when your child answers, listen. Just asking will not help,
you have to listen to what they say and respond to their needs.
It is very important to ask everyday and to be consistent in
asking and listening. When you ask your children about their
school day and about their homework, it will signal to them
that school is important to you and therefore should be
important to them. Asking them about their school day and about
their homework will also send a clear message that you expect
them to learn and study.
A second easy way to get involved in your child’s education is
to check their homework. Not only check, but also assist with
the homework and help your child to study for exams. When you
check your child’s homework everyday, it will ensure that your
child does the homework and also that your child knows that
studying and doing the homework are an important part of their
education. Some days your child might be in a crabby mood or
just plain does not want to do the homework. Give the child
some free time, but insist on the completion of the homework by
the end of the night or the weekend or some other arbitrary
deadline before the next class. Set that time period as a
deadline for homework completion and infrequently remind the
child of it.
Almost as easy as the first two ways to get involved is the
parent teacher contact. Keep up to date on your child’s
progress in school; do not just wait for the teacher to send
you information home. Frequently get in contact with your
child’s teachers and find out about your child’s progress,
behavior and anything that relates to school. There are many
different ways you can talk to your child’s teacher, meet him
after class at school, set up an appointment, set up a parent
teacher conference, participate in conferences set by the
school, call your teacher or even send the teacher a letter.
Teachers like to hear from parents. The teacher knows that
parental involvement is one essential key for student’s success
in school. Teachers do not have the same influence on children
as their parents do.
Did you know that getting involved in your child’s education
also means to vote in school board elections? Yes, voting for
whom you think will do best for the school can improve the
environment your child learns and studies in. This is actually
a very easy way to be involved in your child’s education; you
have to make a checkmark on the voting ballot and are already
helping.
Lastly, there are also setting guidelines, milestones and rules
for your child. Be involved by not letting your child stay up
late on school days, by limiting the time they watch TV and
instead encouraging them to read a book, do their homework or
study. While you set rules and guidelines for children to
follow, make sure that you are a good example of what you
preach. Don’t turn the TV on, after you have told your child
not to watch TV, but to read a book. Get a book out yourself,
or while he or she is doing homework, catch up on paperwork
such as bills.
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