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Exploring the Different Types of Foster Parenting
Choosing to take a child into your home that might come from a neglectful or abusive background is a big decision.
But many people decide to do just this, and they provide an important role in our society. Every child, no matter
what the circumstances, deserves to have a loving home.
Luckily, foster parenting doesn't come in a “one size fits all” format. There are many types of arrangements that a
potential foster parent can look into. If you're not prepared to make a long-term commitment, that is fine. Also,
if you are looking into foster parenting in the hopes of adopting, there are also arrangements of this nature. The
following three kinds of foster parenting offer benefits to both the children and the caregivers.
Fost-Adopt
If you are interested in fostering a child that perhaps you could someday adopt, this is an ideal situation. But
you must keep in mind the top priority of the agencies you will be working with is to reunite the child with his
birth parents, if this is possible. However if this does not work out, being willing to adopt will spare the child
another move when the biological parents' rights are terminated.
Children placed in fost-adopt arrangements are often very young. Foster parenting a child in this situation can be
difficult because there is the chance the biological parent might regain custody. Even after adoption, the birth
parents will often want to have some contact with the child.
Respite Care
Short-term care of a difficult child is often called respite foster care. Sometimes the parents need a break,
especially if the child requires care 24 hours a day. These short breaks – anywhere from a weekend to a few weeks –
can be essential in preserving a family. Foster parenting of this nature can require special training.
A person that performs foster parenting in the form of respite care must provide a relaxing, safe environment for
the child. Spending a weekend or week away from his parents can be upsetting, and it will be your job to make the
child feel reassured and supported.
Therapeutic Care
Children that come into foster care after severe emotional or physical abuse, or in need of special medical
attention, need a large amount of care. Foster parenting children of this nature can be time-intensive as well as
emotionally draining. You will have to invest a lot of hard work to help turn these children around.
Therapeutic foster care is usually done by people with a large amount of experience in dealing with kids who may
already have criminal records, drug problems or a history of self-harming. This can be a full-time foster parenting
job.
Foster parenting is not easy work, but it is extremely rewarding. Finding out what kind of foster care arrangement
would work out best will help you extend your home and resources without becoming burnt out.
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